love.

one day, i met someone who i had not seen for long..we had a talk on an interesting subject; LOVE..huwee~ she emphasizes on the differences between 'sayang' and 'cinta'..dba sayang love this subject matter so much..ngeh3..she is the one who made me recall the point of my conversation with this person..

the main point that clearly differentiate 'sayang' and 'cinta' is the feeling when one decide to get the relationship over.. she said that if you 'cinta' someone, you willingly will let him go..but, then, if you insisted him to be with you, the kind of feeling that you have towards him is 'sayang'. this is because when you do so, you are being selfish..you just care about your feeling without thinking of his..she said to me that if you really 'cinta' someone, let him go if he wants it to be so..dont hurt him by keeping him to yourself..everyone deserves the chances of being happy..if you were in love with someone, all the things that you always want is seeing him drowning in the garden of happiness..watching him smiling and laughing..you might hurt at first but to see him smiling afterwards will cure all the pain in your heart..just believe in karma..no good deed would get poison in return..also don't regret when you have let him go..because if he is truly yours, he's gonna come to you again..things may not happen as soon as you wish but still he will come back to you one day because the destiny has stated that
he is yours and you are his..